I was confused for a while. Wondered how either I could be so wrong or people whom I love and have worshiped with, or, at the least, shared a common faith and conviction with could see the same events, the same people in such different light. I'm not confused any longer.
I realize we are seeing the same things just filtering them through different strainers.
There is accountability ahead of us at some juncture. Soon. If we are serving the same God He is a just God and will not be swayed by our bias or prejudices.
Regardless of what we might like to tell "one's self" the fact is our Spirit of discernment knows Truth.
We know what's real and what is not. If we know Christ we know His image...we are not confused.